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How To Deal With Difficult People And Situations - Gedale Fenster

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BRI Breslov: The Breslov Research Institute

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wonderful guys welcome to our wednesday night miami edition zoom class i'm trying to give you guys a nice uh background in the back so at least you can chill out a little bit and get away from all this uh media and chaos that we're dealing with today obviously so today's class um i chose how to deal with difficult family members how to deal with difficult people a little bit about how to deal with you know obviously conflicts with spouses and everything it's a critical critical class today the it's a critical critical class today the reason why it's so critical today is because obviously the amount of pressure that everybody's under and if we don't handle the pressure correctly it's very likely that all of a sudden one thing is dealing with pressure next thing you know we have major family issues we have resentment issues et cetera so it's very very important to know how to deal with this tonight is to recognize just to have the right mindset you know one thing about robin ahmed's teachings is very something very very important you guys need to understand i'm not telling you i'm going understand i'm not telling you i'm going to take your problems away from you i'm going to tell you that i'm going to give you a different way to look at your problems that is really i would say the best way to look at it i'm not going to tell you everything's going to be perfect in your life i'm going to tell you that i'm going to get you in a position where you have so many amazing things in your life and yes you have some things that are not so great but those things are not going to take down the whole boat i think that's really the key nobody really is going to give you

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  1. 0:00wonderful guys welcome to our wednesday night miami edition zoom class i'm trying to give you
  2. 5:37summer i have the power to change that person by just sending that person positive vibes
  3. 12:13don't sit there all day and let your problems dictate your whole life there's a life
  4. 18:23this is what you were has sent here you're sent here to grow you were sent
  5. 24:30going to have we're going to be burnt out either boundaries or burnouts right away and
  6. 30:30conversation what do you want you can't just go into a conversation like i said you
  7. 36:06any motivation to live or motivation to to do anything and what he says is the
  8. 42:18100 perfect so just understand that we need to understand that and the way we deal
  9. 48:57mean you need to take a break you just need to think you need to take
  10. 54:59have these calls there's boundaries you have to tell them if you call me i'm going

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