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[Music] [Applause] [Music] tonight we're going to explore the Talmudic version for romance it reminds me you know they they say about Socrates that he told one of his students you should get married and the student said why master and he said it's very simple whatever happens would only work will only work out for the best if you have a great marriage you'll find love and if you have a miserable marriage you'll become a philosopher today we have many philosophers around the world experts on marriage they say about teacher who once asked two students what is the difference between an engagement and a battle so one of the students said the difference is one is what happens before marriage and one is what happens after the marriage now the Torah in the book of Devorah min the portion of kiss 8se discusses divorce the option of divorce take a look inside let's see the text of the Bible search source number one in your curriculum right below the video there's a PDF opening up please Torah says like this at the beginning of the 24th chapter of Deuteronomy of dwara key e cos e esha avala the man takes a wife a man marries a wife and they live together they're intimate with each other for homeless imps are hain vain of key matzo barreras dover and it shall be if she does not find grace in his eyes if he does not find her graceful in his eyes he matzo bar
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