The Better Husband Session 7-Real Men Eat Quiche and are Emotionally Supportive

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yisroel Roll’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

good evening and welcome to our better husband zoom support group every tuesday night at 8 30 we join together as husbands to learn how to improve ourselves to become a better husband last week our previous installment talked about emotional support part number one learning how to become emotionally supportive to our wife and to our children there are three steps that we talked about in part one of how to be emotionally supportive supportive they are number one to name the feeling that the wife or child is feeling for example you say that seems very frustrating or you seem very upset you seem very hurt you seem very very sad about that or down about that you seem very frustrated to name the feeling and to say it with feeling to show the child or the wife how you are on their page knowing what they're feeling now if you guess the feeling and you suggest you seem very angry they and you suggest you seem very angry they may correct you and say no i'm not angry i'm just frustrated okay i see that i see you frustrated or i see that you're very sad no i'm not sad i'm just really really really insulted okay so help the person clarify what they're feeling it's very important in terms of teaching a child to have emotional intelligence emotional awareness to how to name the feeling and i suggested last week that we get a poster and you can go

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1. 0:00good evening and welcome to our better husband zoom support group every tuesday night at 8…
2. 4:37accepting the feeling even though we're afraid of the feeling even though it awakens within ourselves…
3. 9:10but when she came to our house and our kid was late by one minute she…
4. 13:49and how to listen so teens will talk by adele faber elaine mesut this book's role…
5. 18:28it's not multitasking it is two acts now when these two conflict when i'm looking up…
6. 23:07thumb while she was talking to me i was going like this yeah right so she's…
7. 27:14example on the right side of the page eric punched me go ahead eric punched me…
8. 31:50they fear that by giving a name to the feeling they'll make it worse just the…
9. 36:24is not to be criticized not to be hurt but to be absorbed to be accepted…
10. 41:02well maybe i'll have some nifty crispies oh excellent much better and you saw i noticed…

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