Navigating the Path to Marriage - Rabbi Yom Tov Glaser

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

how much love should there be in figuring out whether you're supposed to marry somebody and and can you really have love with someone if you have all kinds of conditions or needs that are you know all about you you know for example like most people most people really just love people because of what they do for them so so that's beyond even conditional love it's it's a it's about love that's that's that's really all about themselves you know these are interesting questions and and I'm going to tackle them with uh God's help and what's funny about me just randomly talking about love is I was once listening to Jordan Peterson and he was dealing with I don't know maybe someone sent in a question or someone asked a question about about love and he he took his genius brain which is what he often does takes a problem and then just throws his genius brain at the problem and usually just you hear this poetry come out of him of how he solves the thing or explains it away or like you know like gets you so much Clarity on whatever topic it could be so it turned out that there was one very painful video of him talking about love it goes on for about 45 minutes and I I couldn't breathe the whole time because he was getting he was getting absolutely nowhere the whole time and I was shocked because just for various reasons because he's even though he's a big academic and he's very intellectual

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1. 0:03how much love should there be in figuring out whether you're supposed to marry somebody and…
2. 4:18level Obi because you know we have a commandment to love every Jew so I love…
3. 8:28an eye on kids because they'll you know they'll just jump into someone's car you know…
4. 13:17mystery there's nothing known so you could go for 100% mystery that's that's a possibility exists…
5. 17:23archetype I guess comes from the Jewish people leaving Egypt why do we bread why do…
6. 22:08and those who are married in this room know exactly what I'm talking about and the…
7. 26:26let their guard down and they to the point where my wife now we're married 30…
8. 30:51love and she sees my man's on purpose and he's Unstoppable he's undistracted and something else…
9. 35:38to yoga and she's going to see like whoa like that meant a lot to him…
10. 39:53kinds of ways are you connected at Ali to breev so like flying to Ukraine is…

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