When Your In A Lose/Lose Situation In Marriage

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shay Tahan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] many times in marriages you come across a situation that seems to be a lose-lose situation to spouse whether it's a husband and wife who want to share with you their feelings that they had with their parents with their siblings to tell you how their mother wasn't helpful the mother didn't have time for them the father was doing something that they felt was wrong and now what are you supposed to do if you tell them they're right it's showing and showing negatively about their family that's not a correct thing to do don't be in pain for that and if you tell them that they're wrong you also don't understand them and therefore it's creating over here such a situation that you don't know how to get out of in our parish ah we see that Tito had that mixed feelings very little says ah she mice market Lord Rahl was happy to hear all the wonderful things that

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1. 0:01[Music] many times in marriages you come across a situation that seems to be a lose-lose…
2. 0:31right it's showing and showing negatively about their family that's not a correct thing to do…
3. 1:01our missile has occurred when they came out of its line and how a doctor who…
4. 1:32is that there's two different approaches one is a vase MA another one now service our…
5. 2:03him pain when you come across such a situation you have to understand that whenever you…
6. 2:33and therefore the best approach is you tell them that you understand their pain you feel…
7. 3:04tell them that I do understand what you're feeling with that you gain both things and…

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