It’s Not the Trauma or the Sin; It’s the Shame that Destroys

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

somebody once said that he overheard a conversation in a shul between two jews david tells him he says thank you so much for lending me that twenty thousand dollars i shall be everlastingly in your debt and he responds that's exactly what i'm afraid of there's another anecdote they say about yankel who borrowed a very large sum of money from his friend muttel and when it came time to pay back the borrower didn't have the money so he asked matali said considering that we have been friends for so many years since we've been children maybe you would forgive the loan he says i can't forgive the loan it's a huge sum of money i lent you 60 000 so the borrower says no problem i understand that it's a very large amount and i'm not asking you to forgive it all at once you could forgive a bit every month until it's all gone i i share these anecdotes with you and there are many others of this style and nature because in particular we have the laws of the shoil the borrower generally the torah speaks about four types of custodians four types of shimerim arbar shimerum heim that's how our sages define it there are four types of custodians a shai mechinam a sheikh sakhar a safer and a shia which means four types of responsibilities in terms of somebody having the property or the assets or an object that belongs to somebody else and responsible to give it back there was a shy machine i'm an unpaid custodian i'm going to florida for three weeks

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