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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shaked Bohadana’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Rambam, Laws of the Pains of the Coming, Chapter 11, our Rambam writes that there is no favorable opinion of the Sages for one who spends a lot of time in bed and is always present with his wife like a rooster, and he is very flawed and an act of the ignorant. But whoever spends less in bed is excellent, and he will not cancel a prayer except with the knowledge of his wife. And we did not initially fix a narrator for husbands who do not read the Torah until they are tired, except to spend less in bed. So as you see, gentlemen, after the Rambam taught us in the previous laws what is the essence of the law and all that is permitted to a person and what is prohibited [snorting contempt], then here the Rambam also gives us a law that is actually a correct way of life that is actually a correct way of life and this is a law for everything. Our Rambam says that there is no favorable opinion of the Sages for one who spends a lot in bed. Uncomfortable. There is no prohibition in this. But it is said about this that a person must sanctify himself with what is permitted to him. According to the Ramban, sanctifying yourself with what is permitted to you is from the Torah. But according to many of the jurists, it is leadership. Correct leadership, proper leadership.

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1. 0:03Rambam, Laws of the Pains of the Coming, Chapter 11, our Rambam writes that there is…
2. 2:48also perfectly fine . So the Rabbi says here that we did not initially prescribe for…
3. 5:28he could study Torah, they were too lazy to go and immerse in a mikveh and…
4. 8:08out of hatred, nor should he come to her against her will and she should fear…
5. 11:16is, sons of Sheharut, they both lied, and they serve together, a great flaw in children…
6. 14:07But sons of confusion is that he found his wife and she is really his wife…
7. 16:46her after he has decided in his heart to be a wicked stranger, and if the…
8. 20:12before Bnei Shekar told him what he had told him, long before, he was already doing…
9. 22:50it is permissible, and then by virtue of this one can be entitled to sons of…
10. 25:31And the Mishnah in the Biya is correct, as the Mishnah says in tractate Kiddushin that…

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