CHAZAQ's Torah Talks #216 Rabbi Yaron Weisberg - The 3 Steps To A Great Marriage

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this man who was at the time I think 69 years old and married for 47 years. I told him, I said, "Listen, no one ever taught you the basics about how to be a good husband. I'm here to teach you." And he took out a pen and paper at age 69 and said, "Teach me." And he worked at it for a year, a year and a half, whatever it was. They're in a tremendous place. Their marriage is great. I still speak to them every 2, 3 weeks just to make sure everything's in check. Love and having a good relationship does not happen by itself. These people live together for 47 years. They already got divorced. You have to be ready to put the work in to make it happen. A lot of times in the beginning, everyone's very enthused and and they're trying to do different things and then people get very busy and their marriage sort of drifts to the back. They just go like, "Okay, we'll coast." You know, everything will just be fine forever. If you want to have a thriving, loving relationship, you have to put your marriage at the forefront of your life. [Music] Welcome everyone to to this the special

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1. 0:00this man who was at the time I think 69 years old and married for 47…
2. 1:33over 20 years. In the last nine years or so, I run something called the marriage…
3. 3:35People neglect it for a little bit suddenly there's cavities and you know if you fill…
4. 5:40said you can never learn from watching anyone else even if he's a great RV. You…
5. 7:41Everyone has a lot of rights. I have a right that you shouldn't make a coffee…
6. 9:44of the day uh thriving marriage means two people who take responsibility for their stuff own…
7. 11:48Torah wants two people who are in a loving relationship. And that loving relationship means connection.…
8. 13:49it's the same thing is true in marriage. Everyone has faults. Everyone has things that they…
9. 15:52Anyway, with Hashem's help, I figured quickly out what the about what the problem was. At…
10. 17:52time and invest yourself and put this at the forefront and say, "I am not going…

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