Q&A: Where to Spend the Passover Seder - Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch

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[Music] the next letter comes from a parent who's struggling with his married daughter's choice of where she wants to spend her pace applications and you know today that a lot of people want to wait for Pesach it cost a lot of money but many people are also saying there's a lot of problems connected with these Passover experiences do you Rabbi shown bus I would like to ask you about a family matter my daughter belongs to a group of twenty thirty year olds that want to go out for Passover every year recently there's been a trend with these and up and coming almost completely financial successful modern from kids to go away during out the hotels resorts or friends homes instead of going to family there seems to be a need to go anywhere different other than spending quality ups of time with parents and so things even though they do not pay for their fare or have to put in work we are a regular Hamish from family that always have their children together with us first symptoms my daughter does not want to spend Pesach with us but it's quote looking for something different end quote and she explained to us we cannot seem to reason with her that this is not the masoor of Pesach but to no avail because all of her friends go to exotic places and we don't she does not seem to care about the helices seder or cost route just as long as she can tell her friends she went someplace else and so she decided to go to a young cousin in New Jersey because he invited her without considering parents or the meaning of her actions she has two young

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1. 0:02[Music] the next letter comes from a parent who's struggling with his married daughter's choice of…
2. 0:32my daughter belongs to a group of twenty thirty year olds that want to go out…
3. 1:04have their children together with us first symptoms my daughter does not want to spend Pesach…
4. 1:37daughters ages five and three can you please discuss this to perhaps shed fine light as…
5. 2:09few people actually went on vacations during those but over the last 10 years or so…
6. 2:39Joneses are doing so they go in tremendous financial debt in order to go any vacation…
7. 3:10going into certain Passover programs you're actually losing control of your children and it's something you…
8. 3:40special quiet time and where else can you have that other than in your own home…
9. 4:13father's laps or sitting around the Seder eating their mock sod drinking the four cups of…
10. 4:46resort together then spend a weekend somewhere with your children and perhaps your grandchildren enjoying their…

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