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The Danger of Disrespect - One Mistake That Can Cost You Everything AI

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Rabbi Zamir Cohen

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With God's help, as we continue studying the wisdom of King Solomon in the book of Proverbs, we reach the next verse where Solomon addresses a very common phenomenon. Sometimes a person, whether out of arrogance, carelessness, or a dismissive attitude belittles something or someone he should never belittle. It may be a person. It may be a situation. It may even be an object. Let us read Solomon's words. Whoever mocks will be harmed by it, but Whoever mocks will be harmed by it, but one who fears a mitzvah will be rewarded. Proverbs 13:13. If a person displays scorn towards something that deserves respect, Solomon warns, that very thing may eventually harm him physically, emotionally, or spiritually. As always, Solomon is brief and profound. Our sages in Pirkei Avot expand on this idea. Pirkei Avot, chapter 4, Mishnah 3. chapter 4, Mishnah 3. Do not despise any person and do not dismiss anything, for there is no person who does not have his moment and no thing that does not have its place. Do not despise any person. Even if you currently hold a high position and someone appears beneath you, you think, "Who is he? I will never need him." The Mishnah says, "Do not look down on any human being. Every person was created in the image of God." As the Mishnah later states, As the Mishnah later states, "Beloved is the human being, for he was created in the image of God." Whether he is Jewish or not, we are forbidden to marry outside our faith, but we are absolutely commanded to show respect and never to degrade others. And do not dismiss anything. The Hebrew word mephaleg means to push away, to separate yourself as if something has no worth. The Mishnah teaches, "Do not rush to label anything as worthless because

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  2. 3:36throughout life. Before a person is even born, the Talmud teaches, "The angel appointed over pregnancy
  3. 7:11She remembered, a poor man had arrived at the wedding hungry. All seats were taken. He
  4. 10:46threat. David became Saul's son-in-law. He married Saul's daughter, Michal, yet Saul's hostility remained. Jonathan, Saul's
  5. 14:53"Whoever mocks a matter will be harmed by it." David once mocked the existence of madness,
  6. 18:28and God sent, according to one version, a wasp, and according to another, a mosquito. It
  7. 22:01the cleverest of the animals. The fox replied I'm sorry, Your Majesty I caught a cold
  8. 26:07it does not matter what people say. If before God I know that I'm doing wrong
  9. 29:42as a child he was wildly energetic a mischief-maker. Today he would likely be considered ADHD.
  10. 33:18reason, he causes harm to himself spiritually. Why? The Torah contains 248 positive commandments and 365

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