How to educate my kids about modesty - Rabbi Alon Anava

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Alon Anava’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

even then all ages I mean if you're taking a shower with you girl that's one thing but you know what I'm talking about is walking around in the room I mean there have you bathed the child and you in the shower with the child that's normal I mean with the gem that you want at some point in a very early stage separate like a two-year-old the three-year-old girl does not need to be with her father in the shower so no and also the other way around boy 3/4 shouldn't be with a mom she 3/4 shouldn't be with a mom she shouldn't see what's going on it's not good but I was mainly talking about that you know how the father and the mother are sneezed in the home because a child sees that that also develops holtsville because when a child sees you know a person that is very modest in front of the Kadosh Babu then that also imprints in the child this self respect when if you really want to look at it in a very and there's to say extreme way but and there's to say extreme way but hutzpah dick come from lack of respect I mean if I respect somebody I'll never be hospital I really respect somebody now if somebody doesn't respect another person he will be hood spitting so if I'm not a hundred percent respecting the master of the universe it will be translated in the eyes of a child that I'm not respectful so why should I be view not so it starts into this because

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