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The Secret to Real Love - Rabbi Zamir Cohen

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Rabbi Zamir Cohen

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When you invest, you'll fall in love more. Rabbi Dessler, blessed memory, the Mashgiach of the Ponevezh Yeshiva, explains this in his book Michtav me-Eliyahu. Why is it that when we invest in a person, we love them more? He asks about art. Any artist who creates a work, a sculpture, a painting, the artist is usually in love with their creation. There are more beautiful works out there. Why does he love this one? The

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  1. 0:00When you invest, you'll fall in love more. Rabbi Dessler, blessed memory, the Mashgiach of the…
  2. 0:30there. Why does he love this one? The usual answer is because he invested in it.…
  3. 1:00You invest in her, you invest in your friend, and a wife invests in her husband.…

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