Special Tu B'Av Episode! From Newlyweds to Golden Years: Rabbi Shafier's Marital Advice

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The opening of this shiur, in The Motivation Congregation’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

it is with great excitement that we welcome the great Rabbi schaer in to the podcast most of you probably already know that name from R by schaer's platform the Schmo website of teaching TOA and muser ideas at a very large scale and also based on the new best-selling book 10 really dumb mistakes that very smart couples make and the book Promises to be a Tor based guide to a successful marriage and well guide to a successful marriage and well the book helped me it's Torah based and it is a masterpiece so without further Ado welcome Rabbi schaer to the podcast well thank you my pleasure to be here so I know that most of theum most of the audience does know Rabbi schaer um but it may I think perhaps if the r could just maybe give a short uh introduction as to the what the scho is introduction as to the what the scho is how it came to be and perhaps a little bit about the R's background and how the book came to be just to kick it off sure sure okay so I began as a high school Reby I was Ina for many years and I was a high school rebi in Rochester uh and many years ago theel asked me to start a first Tor which was a working an organization for the working Guys these were guys who had been in Yeshiva maybe they learned a lot maybe they learned very little the common side was they were now in the

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1. 0:01it is with great excitement that we welcome the great Rabbi schaer in to the podcast…
2. 5:10get it but when you see couple after couple making the same dumb mistakes I began…
3. 9:50every popular marriage book that's out there I believe I've read um and you know eventually…
4. 14:54notice how often she's not on time or she's not need and it's costing her time…
5. 19:31that way in the home but it requires Focus you see not meaning to and good…
6. 24:39do maybe because he means something totally different with what he said than the way I…
7. 29:16marriage yeah entire book is uh in my mind when I think about it it flashes…
8. 33:54combination on a regular basis I've seen this and I've said this to my wife countless…
9. 39:00forgetting that talking means something different to women a couple that is struggling to make conversation…
10. 43:37certain time with no phones on a date no phones dinner time no phones there should…

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