How Do We Get Our Marriages Back on Track

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Brooklyn Jewish Experience and supporting it both through money and through moral support and those of you who are involved in every possible way financially, emotionally, spiritually, all types of activities. Thank you for everything all of you are doing and what BJX is doing for the for all of the Yiddishe Kinderlach in Brooklyn, our hometown where so many of us grew up and beyond. People wouldn't realize how much don't realize how much work there is in Brooklyn. You don't have to only travel to far places in Brooklyn, New York where you have hundreds and hundreds of thousands of Jews. So many of them need that warm embrace, that empowering hug, that love, the commitment, the wisdom, and the dedication. So thank you, Brooklyn Jewish Experience, and thank you everybody for your incredible generosity on this very special day when Jews throughout the years have always been increasing in more tzedakah, and more chesed, and more ahavas Yisrael, and more achdus Yisrael. So, the theme that was allotted to me this afternoon of Tisha B'Av is marriage. How do we enhance our shalom bayis, get our marriages back on track, increase the harmony in our homes? And I have to say it is very apropos to this day because the Gemara says in Yoma that when the gentiles went into the Heichal, ro'eh keruvim zeh bazeh,

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1. 0:32Brooklyn Jewish Experience and supporting it both through money and through moral support and those of…
2. 2:39interpretations that Bnei Yissachar brings it from the Maggid of Mezritch is the Gemara says in…
3. 4:41sister. Chesed, but that was unique. Generally, to marry in a family is incest, it's giluy…
4. 6:45which we all really get along, in which we all recognize that even though we're different,…
5. 8:47surrender to despair and oy vey, Rachmana litzlan, what do we do? It's an opportunity to…
6. 10:51Yes, we give our children food and love and nurture and a lot of other things…
7. 12:52Take a deep breath, be patient and calm and compassionate towards yourself, and just look at…
8. 14:53especially serious decisions?" And I would say to you, one of the best things and exercises…
9. 16:58la'atzmi ma'ani. Together with that, lo tov hayot ha'adam levado. It's not good. It's not good…
10. 19:05excruciatingly painful, 20 years have gone down the drain with endless contention and fighting, 30 years…

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