When it seems like you're about to lose control in life... - how do we cope? - Rabbi Alon Anava

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Alon Anava’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] unfortunately many many people should even say many everybody is dealing with some type of a disaster in their life usually comes in pairs and in most cases it comes in much more than pairs and most people find it very difficult to cope with their disasters in their life to cope with their life and one person has to deal with the finance my financial difficulties another person has to deal with health issues another person can find their other half another person find their other half they can't get along with them and unfortunately most people on the outside they hold themselves together and they put a nice smile but nevertheless inside there's a chaos going on in their in their hearts in their mind and in their body if you would be able to somehow read through the faces you would see the disasters that every person has to deal with rather when you look at people you know they have a nice smiling face how are you Oh wash em and this bow Hashem is like I feel like jumping off a roof but bow Hashem and I'm not saying it has to be sure don't to hurt anybody's feelings I'm just saying the sad reality is is that we all have to deal with a lot of problems in our life and we're not gonna ask a question or try to get an answer for why this is the most not good question one can ask there's two questions that I really don't like it or one of them is what if and the other one is why what if there's no point of wasting my time of what is this is like three results saying what if what if I could fly but this only works for

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