Life Coach Paz Laghai - Breaking the Myths of Dating

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

good evening um welcome to hi brut's uh English lecture here in Tel Aviv the focus of this lecture is for singles and more specifically dating we're out there we're looking for relationships we're looking for happiness we're looking to find our special one other one that we want to mix up and match up with we want to find our soulmate they call it right the problem is that for some reason our soulmate keeps slipping away from between our fingers because we've been between our fingers because we've been looking for him for several years and we don't seem to be able to find him where is that single soulmate that's supposed to make us happy and why is it so difficult to find that guy or girl right this is the question that drove you guys made you leave your wonderful TVs and and entertainment and whatever bars and clubs and fun and happiness is out there and come here to watch me to find Solutions right this is what brought you guys it's not the pizza I'm hoping right it's good pizza but it's not that good it's good pizza but it's not that good okay so this is what I would like to be able to answer the reason I'm out here answering this question is because not that far ago not that long ago I was sitting in these seats exactly asking those same questions I was this secular guy who used to live in Israel who moved to the United States who was looking for the same things you guys are looking for it all it's all under the same umbrella it's called Happiness but more specifically happiness through relationships how do we get there and

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3. 12:44well yeah it's uh um what happened to all the the the equality rights groups why…
4. 19:03okay right so it's not a Make It or Break It my husband is this tall…
5. 25:24cares about what they say it's true it's just not number one they're looking at that's…
6. 31:32about me if I'm compassionate if I'm cruel if if you know I like Tetris she…
7. 37:45car let's start driving we get the idea how long can a man take to pick…
8. 44:10kid bring up anything positive okay connect yourself associatively with positive things in their mind so…
9. 50:22look me up on WhatsApp what does it say I up right now yeah yeah look…
10. 56:44my house all the time I have no idea as last I checked my wife and…

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