Dating & Marriage - Rabbi Yitzchok Silver

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dating in the secular world is that they not necessarily are thinking of a chador at all so of course dating when talking of dating there are some communities within clueless role that parents see nothing wrong with their teenage children dating without marriage in mind at all very often they've already decided that they will not get married and they're dating anyway so first of all putting to the Torah that is forbidden most people know that physical contact which is enjoyable is between males and females is forbidden eh it's also forbidden just to chat and enjoy each other's company that the Torah did not just say thou shalt not commit adultery the Torah said don't even get close to each other so anything that creates some kind of closeness in the way that males and females enjoy each other would be forbidden so we're not talking about dating that's got nothing to do with she took him over here because that's not something that makes a difference to us we're talking about dating for she took him so now even dating in she'd look for she'd of him unfortunately in many parts of the secular world they will date for Nazi document if things work out then they might think of marriage later they usually get fed up with each other after a year or two and that's also not really what we're talking about so what are we

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1. 0:54dating in the secular world is that they not necessarily are thinking of a chador at…
2. 5:04something special about she'd of him ok so a young people may look for looks or…
3. 9:48major hormone changes and whatnot after such a thing he said the first three weeks were…
4. 14:30he's there for and this this person what a woman does not mean she doesn't need…
5. 18:37he wanted just relax but he was under pressure so of course a good husband puts…
6. 23:13each one Sam we didn't wait for this and go to there and he said you…
7. 27:52came detached from the walls cell phones so it was a little bit harder and it…
8. 32:01fantasy and it has to become real after you get married so the tyra the gomorrah…
9. 36:41they didn't respect each other enough respect and love each other enough this is who rebbi…
10. 41:19past she falls to his feet and people are trying to say no go away from…

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