Bitachon and Dating part 2 2010-05-26

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yosef Gavriel Bechhofer’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

yes okay so we're asked to summarize the expressing the camera that's to summarize last night's years this was not everything about the everything but the first year was recorded before me do everything about they'll be talking tonight usually the one do it anyway yes so a couple of things that we talked about were that people wait too long sometimes they're mad because they get too picky and the fact is that you should be performing a sham that as long as you find a girl who is has good vetoes which means a healthy normal positive and kind character that and she is someone whom you feel pleasant in her cub doesn't cook talking to her and you feel another company that it's nice to you quite nice to spend time with her so then that is a reasonable basis for continuing the shadows and not giving it up and there is there people who acquaintance the repertory out people will put too much emphasis on romantic love and there is a concept of chemistry which is that feeling of the pleasure and the looking forward to spending time with somebody but the question is a very open question whether the issue of romantic love which the Western society has imposed on us is legitimate Jewish concept or an advisable Jewish concept revival concerts whether it's Jewish or not for something which is totally superfluous so in my opinion might be is not like refugio depending of completely because some bobbing aquarium obstruction of old Hirsch but about this but in my opinion that it's something which needs to be brought out into the

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