Why Most Marriages End Up on Autopilot (and How You Can Beat the Odds)

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

it's like the easiest thing to do doesn't cost you any money don't SP don't go to any jewelry store don't go to any any store where you're buying flowers or anything just communicate that over and over and over to your spouse I like you I like spending time with you you're incredible you're a great person like I don't just like give you attention but I pay attention to what you're saying all of that is level one and if a couple's able to build level one it's like really really solid then the level two conversations become much more meaningful it's like oh how do much more meaningful it's like oh how do we navigate this dilemma this issue or what are we going to do about this I know as a podcaster you're really not supposed to say this but I would have to say this conversation is one of the top three podcasts that I've ever done uh it's insightful practical clear and this isn't R Ru Epstein's first time on the show but this is the blueprint to have a successful and happy marriage and before we dive in I got to just do we dive in I got to just do something and just like that my beard is gone why yakob why did you shave well you'll hear pun intended the reason at the end of this episode actually has to do with this episode now whether you are married or looking to get married I think this is the most clear advice to have a thriving marriage and love you will ever hear and anyone who leaves a comment on this video it can even be one word you will be entered into a raffle to experience Robbie Epstein's full Deep dive course course on all his marriage

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1. 0:00it's like the easiest thing to do doesn't cost you any money don't SP don't go…
2. 5:34people don't usually raise their hand so quick to that I think most people they want…
3. 10:36most relationships is that the person stops giving and then there's a withdrawal so the wife…
4. 15:42where you think like hey I'm giving and I'm getting that's very nice you're giving and…
5. 22:17from his interactions with other people can you give an example without giving away who it…
6. 27:21thing so to me the word b is like nullification it's nullification of that ego perspective…
7. 32:27Us versus the world versus me versus you if you could get yourself to that point…
8. 38:06quotes Travelers at every stage yearning to uncover their own path towards Freedom Redemption and most…
9. 44:15that to me is like usually the step before divorce when couples come to me in…
10. 49:26try to like introduce it to the relationship ship like if if somebody listening is like…

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