As Long As I’m Trying To Contain Reality in My "Cup," Triggers Persist

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

and then last class which was monday morning we did the fourth chapter what was the summation of what we learned and i literally say summation very very briefly anybody wants to say it exactly so that so often we define ourselves as being in a situation and reacting to that which is happening around us around us in truth even though there's a certain truth to that obviously but really we always have to go much deeper and ask what is happening inside of us because the way i respond internally often defines the reality that i'm reacting to this is not something that we intuitively necessarily know or learn about we often say you know if this happens we act this way if somebody says this react this way what we're learning here is that the biggest work has to do with noticing what's being aroused in me what's what's being triggered in me because my own blockages will completely affect how i am affected and how i affect your how i am affected and how i affect your blockages or in the words of the mimer somebody who's still holding on they're holding on to stuff and they cannot let go of those stuff so their reaction to those stuff and other people is going to be extremely extremely dramatic and intensified and defined by those blockages only when i am a conduit only when i let go only when i am really really in a position of inner

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