Rabbi Yitzchak Ziskind - Introduction to Love and Marriage

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so the subject is love and marriage and i'll start off with a very dramatic statement jewish people don't get married marriage is not for jewish people what the world considers marriage to be is not what a jewish man and a jewish woman do in order to become husband and wife the way a jewish man a jewish woman become husband and wife is the man says to the woman in front of two witnesses behold you are sanctified to me the tabard zoo with this uh gift this ring usually it's a ring it has to have a certain minimum value of this object that he's giving her kadat israel according to the tradition of moisha and the jewish people and she puts out a finger thereby agreeing to his proposal which is to sanctify her and when he puts the ring on her finger they become husband and wife further stage of the marriage is suing shiva brokers and so forth and so on so what does that mean first of all most people don't know what kadusha sanctity holiness is they don't know how to do it you know that is shabbos is holy the land of israel is holy you know the torah is holy homage is holy basa madras where we study torah but what actually is this man undertaking to do and we just need to take a step back because i'm actually an architect by profession architect and town planner i was in architecture 34 years in south africa but i was always doing kiruf and i actually had the privilege of being invited here some 16 years ago

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4. 8:29and it's very interesting because you'll find that there are three words that the torah uses…
5. 11:03relationship between a husband and wife and the torah says because of this alkane yaz of…
6. 13:41one of the most beautiful things that one will see in life a loved and honoured…
7. 16:17you know after my my love my life all those years with my wife and their…
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