How to Get Over Grudges and Resentment

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

there was a weekend retreat there and i was invited to speak and i came there and to my delight i see that robertson youngrez was also there for shabbos i didn't know she would be there and we were sitting and schmoozing and she told me that the reason that she was there was because there was somebody she once knew and their child became socially emotionally psychologically and spiritually quite lost and spiritually quite lost so she traveled she took the flight to sedona pretty remote place so that sunday she would be able to meet this youngster and try to encourage this young girl and give her some hope and in order to make it there she had to be there on shabbos we had a very meaningful shoppers together she spoke i spoke and it was very moving to me to see it was very moving to me to see sometimes [Music] you see great speakers orators lecturers teachers leaders who are very good with large audiences after all there'll soon be a debate tonight and you'll see what i mean and the sign of a true jewish leader is somebody who cares for one as much as they care for a thousand because they understand that a thousand are really made up of ones are really made up of ones and that shabbos she told the story of her father telling her in bergen-belsen when her brother asked where are the angels her father said you are you are the shabbos angels there was uh a lot of emotion in the crowd when she shared the story and perhaps robertson youngreis didn't even realize maybe or she did probably but i don't even know to the extent of how much american youngsters

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