CHAZAQ's Torah Talks #206 Rabbi Mordechai Twersky - Shalom Bayis: From Conflict to Connection

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Children absorb stress into the home. Sometimes it's because the children, sometimes it's because the parents don't know how to deal with children. And sometimes it's simply the husband and wife don't know how to communicate with each other. >> Communication. >> Yeah. Communication is a big word. >> Lack of communication causes issues. >> Yeah. When a couple or an individual comes in and says they have a problem with Sha and bias, I have to listen carefully. What they present on the surface is usually just the what they're arguing, fighting about, >> what's causing it. >> Right? So the first part we I would call >> Right? So the first part we I would call an evaluation to listen carefully and to understand that there are issues that are underlying that's causing the conflict [Music] and welcome to Torah talks Kazak's program we spe with special guest today we have with us all the way from Brooklyn. So good to all the way from Brooklyn. So good to have the RAV at the Kazak headquarters. Thanks for joining us. >> I'm honored to be here. >> Thank you. Thank God. And the topic is shal from conflict to connection which is a very important topic. Before we get to that topic, we got a little bit background about the RV and the great work the RV is involved with. >> Well, just a little background. I grew up I was born in Denver, Colorado. Grew up in Denver, Colorado. and for um a number of years for 20 years lived in Denver as well and been in primarily

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