Regrets block divine energy; trust in God’s will.
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[Music] morning everybody hope everybody's well hope everyone's having an amazing day weekend happy monday for those that are here live just getting rolling let's are shaking a little bit ah we've been talking last week about this idea of the energy of of mixing our soul with what's going on with the god that's around us and the gods within us of faith and really where we left off was trying to identify all the blocks that are along the way what i want to talk about today a little bit is a block that we touched on very briefly but we didn't really spend a lot of time going into and i want to sort of open that up and the reason is because it happened to me over the weekend it reminded me of something it reminded me of the story of advice that my rabbi gave him from israel by leaving from israel that is maybe one of the most difficult things that i've heard him say to me but something that if you could work on this and get it like holy cow change your whole life so a while ago i had to make a decision and it was a difficult decision it was sort of which direction to go in in a specific specific area of my life and i spent a lot of time thinking about it and it's a lot it was it created a lot of stress and i spoke to my rabbi about it and he said he would ask a get a bracha for me from an even greater rabbi and i made the decision to go in one direction and immediately after i made that decision to go in that direction i felt like it was the wrong move [Music] you know when that happens sometimes where you make a decision to do something
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- 0:01[Music] morning everybody hope everybody's well hope everyone's having an amazing day weekend happy monday for…
- 2:05and i spoke to my rabbi about it and he said he would ask a get…
- 4:14the silent shmona esre it's an extra like five paragraphs that are only added three times…
- 6:15it it disappears that's why by the way it's a bit of advice whenever you make…
- 8:54i wish i could say i have this like in me but i don't at least…
- 11:04meaning the second before you make it it's in your hands second after it's done it…
- 13:12when you look back in a decision that you made especially if you made it with…
- 15:48is your imagination so the other choice always is amazing until people started to break up…
- 17:56now caveat if you're gonna have it again you should learn from that always learn from…
- 20:05what you're you're you're basically taking the opportunity before you that that is built for you…
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