Don't Love Me; Respect Me - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

comes very often when people get married they'll always say he's just like me I'm just like him okay come back in 10 years often that's what people say he finishes my sentence and she finishes my sent we understand each other we get each other it's like we grow up together great and you know what it's awesome Oneness but that's not enough and the reason it's not enough is because what's going to happen is when there differences come out that's going to challenge the sense of Oneness suddenly they're going to see we're not one we have some differences we have similarities but we have differences if you could live your whole life Mish as one you always enjoy and like the same things great but generally men and women are opposites and even two men and two women everybody has their own stuff their own personalities going on it's in small things and big things small things could mean do you leave the light open at night in the room I thought that was small things okay it's big fine or does the light have to be off he's like I have to read I can't go to sleep mil restaurants fesa restaurants is that also big okay I don't mean to tread on sensitive ground I don't want to be a bull in a china shop right do the Venetian blinds stay open or must they be closed one perspective is we live in an open world I want to see the world and one is privacy privacy everybody sees what you look like you idiot Clos the venetian blind especially when you come whatever

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2. 4:23whatever okay so you understand what I'm saying so now what happens when this couple got…
3. 8:46hungry thirsty frustrated and grouchy and nobody knows why and the reason they don't know why…
4. 13:37relationship and if it's somebody I feel that fear from I have to work on it…
5. 17:19your father and mother there's a Mitzvah to respect now the question is what if you…
6. 21:36parents very few parents don't love their children but it's harder to respect your children in…
7. 26:02me okay so now we come back yeah now we come back by the way oops…
8. 29:48the shum I don't want to hear I don't want to hear about I hear enough…
9. 34:12to you know why because they were all about love Oneness says God is one you…
10. 38:28the Pratt the individual Sunday is not Monday day one is not day three they're part…

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