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Rabbi Bentzion Shafier - Mastering Relationships

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Rabbi Shay Tahan

Rabbi Bentzion Shafier discusses mastering relationships according to Torah.

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foreign Schaefer on the topic may have missed in relationships are they everyone for joining us on this cold winter and this cold winter at night where we were where where we just had this great holiday of of Hanukkah of of of igniting yourself igniting others and that's what we're going to be doing here tonight we're getting tremendous words from Arabic seon Schaefer I want to thank oyasagi shimogue for always open their doors because there's a place open their doors because there's a place of Torah and physic and the Tila of course I want to thank to our life David Applause amazing I think I was cheaper in the schmooze and things surrounded around no pause so much fun is what they do of course grab machine for going from place to place inspiring people in person and thousands of people online of course and we're gonna be hearing about some everyone's gonna get a free book and you're like dumb mistakes the very and you're like dumb mistakes the very smart couples make so I definitely uh tremendous insights and wisdom and I think of course kazak which people might know kazaka because of events and shirum which which they organize like uh from he spoke about about this tremendous safer um from Kazakh in uh in in Queens and in Roslyn and professional reporting together but they were David today to our life to be here in Brooklyn and what might not be known is that is that the thousands of of upon thousands tens of

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  1. 0:00foreign Schaefer on the topic may have missed in relationships are they everyone for joining us
  2. 5:12invariably not same person no connection whatsoever if the marriage is great or horrible whatever it
  3. 10:16did Sarah say that she's too old the question is number one why did the malachim
  4. 15:23connect to bond to spend time together the answer is we didn't okay the month before
  5. 20:30your being happy and I Say gentleman this one's on your side and you're being happy
  6. 26:06mind is in your mind assuming that the way I feel about things is the way
  7. 31:15she because she's not you okay let's move on okay really dumb mistake number four ladies
  8. 36:24wife would ask me for advice and she was never happy it was like my IQ
  9. 42:00because there's so much trouble in any case I was speaking in Chicago to a group
  10. 47:10understand what you're saying maybe it's that we don't agree oh and it's true she's gonna

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