Our Family, Our Strength - Principle #19: Self-Esteem - Rabbi Yirmiyahu Abramov

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principle number 19 in our series of twenty five basic principles of Jewish child rearing is self-esteem self-esteem is a very basic ingredient in every human being the person who's lacking sulfurous esteem is not in any way respecting himself so everybody has the right to self esteem everybody is Anna shamma is a soul is an individual is a person with a mission which is a basic Jewish belief every person has a mission therefore we are all entitled to self esteem now this is a vehicle that will really help the child actualize his potential as he begins to respect himself more and hold of himself in his particular areas so his personality builds and so he slowly even from a tender age begins developing into who he really could be and should be this is all based on the fact that as we've said before many times man is essentially a neshama a soul a soul is something completely unique a soul is something very very special a soul has enormous depth and breadth to it and each and every individual is his own entity and his own soul so how is self esteemed both self esteem is built by meeting challenges overcoming them with dignity or at least meeting them with dignity every time a person successfully stands up to a challenge he feels a good sense of self esteem what we as parents need to do is to provide him constantly with

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1. 0:13principle number 19 in our series of twenty five basic principles of Jewish child rearing is…
2. 0:43shamma is a soul is an individual is a person with a mission which is a…
3. 1:16builds and so he slowly even from a tender age begins developing into who he really…
4. 1:49his own soul so how is self esteemed both self esteem is built by meeting challenges…
5. 2:21challenges one grows through challenges so we need to be providing these challenges for him one…
6. 2:52which could be selfs destroying because he has been put in the situation of a challenge…
7. 3:24scaling that par they'll never get over the bar so therefore when he fails and he…
8. 3:57to reach that that goal when he matches and reached that goal he feels great he…
9. 4:28nothing like a praise there's nothing like feeling appreciated and even reinforce them when we notice…
10. 4:58he will feel good with himself and he'll be ready to take on the next hurdle…

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