How To Respond When Your Spouse Complains - Rabbi Zamir Cohen in English (AI)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Zamir Cohen’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

if we delve into the minds of men and women the psychological analysis can assist and promote marital Harmony in the home why is it hard for a husband to hear complaints from his wife a man naturally feels responsible for the house he feels like the head of the family and therefore wants to make sure everyone is happy at home when he arrives home and his wife informs him that she is a experiencing informs him that she is a experiencing difficulties with the children work and other matters she is unaware that she actually desires attention however he perceives it as if she is attacking him as if she is complaining about him that he is not okay she doesn't mean that at all she just wants to express what's in her heart but for the husband who feels responsible for the house he feels like she's attacking him she tells him you're not okay I'm under stress all because of you to defend himself he tried tries to

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1. 0:00if we delve into the minds of men and women the psychological analysis can assist and…
2. 0:30informs him that she is a experiencing difficulties with the children work and other matters she…
3. 1:00you to defend himself he tried tries to show her that the situation is not as…
4. 1:31them if she says my hand hurts so show her that really her whole body hurts…
5. 2:03sleep so well he assures her that the back pain will pass by tomorrow this reaction…
6. 2:33fall into place she just wants you to understand her and share her pain she doesn't…

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