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The opening of this shiur, in Anafeam’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Hello everyone, I would like to talk to you today about relationships, even starting from the very beginning. Some rules in relationships are very important. If we don't come to them prepared, then unfortunately we encounter many problems. Problems that are really fatal. They are really fatal. There is a rabbi who says a very true sentence: There is no unsuccessful couple. There is an unguided couple. An unguided couple. And it can also be a couple in their 50s and 60s who are just like that, unguided couple. An unguided couple. And it can also be a couple in their 50s and 60s who are just like that, 50 and 60 years old, with six, seven, and eight children with grandchildren, and they arrive at the rabbinate as if they were where you were until today. It's just that suddenly it becomes quiet at home. The wife doesn't take care of the children that much anymore, and the husband just retired. You enter the house and then you discover huge gaps. It's not that they are not good people. There are no bad people. There are people who are not guided. So I want to give some very important principles in I want to give some very important principles in relationships. And I hope that with God's help I will be able to say these things in a good and correct way that will benefit you in the best way. The first thing. The first rule in married life is a series of priorities. I look at my daughters. God has blessed me with five daughters. I am raising them. My wife and I, of course, are more correct. My wife is raising them until they are 18, I hope 19, no more. I know it sounds crazy to you. Why 19? We'll talk about it later.

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