Raising Children: Equal Love for All - Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] according to the in God's world your child is only your child if you show them love but if you favor one child over another child and you don't show that child love as far as is concerned says and it does not say that's how the Torah looks at a relationship between a parent and a child AB ainu had a child named isma isma AB ainu loved very very much was his first child he loved yal very much sahu did not love yal at all and is was ruining so s told abrah to throw him out AB went to hasem he said I don't want to throw him out I will be M of him but my wife wants me to throw him out so he went to the best Shalom bias coach in the world he went to God and he said what should I do and God said listen to your wife and throw him out but that did not make AB love any less so listen to this which is an unbelievable when God came to AB to take his child to bring him on the AA he didn't tell him which child okay he said the following please take your son said to God a I have two sons which son God said to you're only one this one is the only one to his mother and the only one to his mother I still don't know which son you want me to give to bring to the AA so said okay okay okay no games I'm going to tell you which one the one that you love now was bad to the bone a bad guy stole robbed raped did every bad thing you can imagine right soem said okay okay sure I have the one that you

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1. 0:01[Music] according to the in God's world your child is only your child if you show…
2. 2:44love said to God I still don't know who you want me to send I love…
3. 5:31me oh he makes me nervous oh he makes me nervous that's the same thing with…
4. 8:37who he is I said but I can tell you how old he is she goes…
5. 11:18daughter you have no you don't clean up your room you're fresh I was never like…
6. 14:36kill him because that's how we are now why Hashem do that the answer is that…
7. 17:14there are many conditions that really will hurt that poor child on the other hand what's…
8. 19:51important but I can only tell you on one condition you don't tell Mommy what is…
9. 23:00look for that unconditional love in very bad places and they're going to be fooled because…
10. 25:47message that there was Z an old man who came from Canan to see him right…

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