An exploration of self-independence through giving.
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hi I'm for those in the middle of morning coffee ah what an incredible day today New York weather for those that are here in the East Coast it's like 80s this is my zone you know I'm half Syrian I've said actually I'm fully Syrian cuz it goes by your dad no there's a lot of desert inside me there's a lot of thats party we'll just loves the warm weather my wife is a total Ashkenazi god bless her she likes it when it's like cold ish her favorite time of the year is like full turning to winter my favorite time of the year honestly some people think I'm nuts it's like hot summer like it's a hundred degrees outside I know what it is so happy summer everybody summer is chugging through into June for those who are tuning in live happy Tuesday for those that are tuning in on demand whenever you tune in thanks so much for tuning in we've been speaking a lot about these these concepts that I think we're gonna try to close out today this is ideas of understanding who we are if you think through our two most basic needs their competence or we would call on our show significance and connectivity both of these needs are given to us spiritually it's all part of the creation process the the the the way we were created the way that the Torah speaks to or created oh yeah okay just for those of you who are in zoom I'm sorry to digress Andy is posting genetics about who likes
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- 3:47price not that they're always connected but even let's assume they are for this there's always…
- 6:03it is and when you do that it feels that way when you take your natural…
- 8:10effort so as opposed to connecting to you in a real way I'm just kind of…
- 10:18for actual giving am i foregoing that hit of pleasure when people look versus the real…
- 12:32psychological way of understanding autonomy its we hate when someone says go left and we go…
- 14:40what you get back is just the gravy of your life not the necessities of your…
- 16:50like what what did I say I'm not talking about telling that person that walks in…
- 18:53because if you understand that it'll help everything that we're doing but until then try doing…
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