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Bitachon and Dating part 1 2010-05-24

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Rabbi Yosef Gavriel Bechhofer

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yeah okay so first night when I spoke here spoke about the cell phone and there was a part of the safer which I glossed over which I was asked to speak about tonight which is about be tough fun and matters of shidduchim so there are three aspects of this Deep Ellum to trust in God there's trust before you get married there's trust when they're trying to get married and there's trust in God after you got married that he's married the right one married that he's married the right one okay so now he goes to these issues one by one Alice Cooper says I'm a dime before but Doris could mean in olden in previous generations in the good old days foreign aid so I'm noti'm not use when I say but men would get married at the age of eighteen now 18 was like an outer limit these gonna night at them at seed who didn't leave little so long ago two hundred five hundred years ago he got married the age of 15 guys ain't even married the age of 15 guys ain't even searching I'm sorry and I'm sorry cooking with 12 no that was good yes I'm not sure if I remember 16 and 13 I mean Vegas it was very standard back then to get married extremely early K much above I've officers over here at symbol of Elsa Asia and once a young man here from Pat's age of 20 doesn t Mary Ann Shalom you credit there's a special curse against him how am i doing missus you might be miss AC shuttle and people who somehow even earlier pissed off it says

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  1. 0:00yeah okay so first night when I spoke here spoke about the cell phone and there
  2. 4:07she was rather close a person also excess tension drops back to the server up and
  3. 8:48in no well the median entertainment so in the achiever world what what from outside would
  4. 13:00from the perspective of the sugar market and 24 is wow I was just totally out
  5. 19:16my highway okay you know whatever your caste whenever a boy is born so he gives
  6. 24:06child doesn't exist emptiness with that person we're just worried about or talk about automatic zone
  7. 28:45to the cycler that means they're just generic you know we we find a story with
  8. 32:51females are generally better than else I can't say for every world but it's only in
  9. 37:35yeah so I I do but it's not but even but it's it's self-fulfilling in other
  10. 42:20a date right yeah that's poor judgment the better for this I mean if you happen

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