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Matos: The Real Reason Why Rebbi Akiva Cried From Hafaras Nedarim

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Rabbi Daniel Glatstein

A discussion on the parsha Matos and the emotional response of Rebbi Akiva to hafaras nedarim.

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Okay, good morning everyone. We have a an amazing insight of rubber fall the Av Beis Din of Eihu Altona Hamburg and Wandsbek. Before that, we have amazing news. >> [clears throat] >> Next weekend will be our annual campaign for Machon Maggid Rakia. So now's your chance to uh be mishtatef in helping build our Beis Hamedrash which is soon uh going to its final stages of approval so we could start building. If you uh the best way to help us out is to set up to your team page. Please contact us. It would be uh greatly appreciated. The pasuk says Isha Hafiram Va'Hashem Yisalach Lah. Her husband annuls a neder and Hashem will forgive. The Gemara says, "What is this talking about?" Talking about a woman who made a neder to be a nazirah. And the husband heard and he annulled it. She didn't know. Meanwhile, she's drinking wine, she's being metamei the meis him. Says the Gemara Rabbi Akiva, when he got to this pasuk, he cried. He says, "Madach, someone who's mechaven to eat basar chazir and it turned out to be basar tlei'ah. The Torah says you need kaparah u'slichah. One who's mechaven to eat chazir and eats chazir alach as kamah dekamah." A very well-known Gemara. There Rabbi Akiva cried seemingly because he learned the lesson that not only is a person punished for machshavah, but one is for ma'aseh, but one is punished for machshavah as well. That even if somebody intends to sin, but doesn't actually sin, even then, you need kaparah. A very well-known Gemara. Rubber Faller of Altona Hamburg Wandsbek rips this apart. We need Rabbi Akiva to teach that a person's punished if they have a kavana to violate an aveira, that's a chiddush? The guy wanted to violate Hashem's word,

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  1. 0:00Okay, good morning everyone. We have a an amazing insight of rubber fall the Av Beis…
  2. 0:31approval so we could start building. If you uh the best way to help us out…
  3. 1:01Says the Gemara Rabbi Akiva, when he got to this pasuk, he cried. He says, "Madach,…
  4. 1:34ma'aseh, but one is punished for machshavah as well. That even if somebody intends to sin,…
  5. 2:05of course they're punished. What they're going to get away scot-free? They thought to to violate…
  6. 2:36"Isha hafeiram v'Hashem yislach lah"? >> [clears throat] >> Now, says Rav Refael, there's a mussar…
  7. 3:06for their thought. The lashon of Rebbe Akiva's "sricha selicha v'kapparah." They need two atonements. Selicha…
  8. 3:36King. So it actually tastes better now. It's "Mayim genuvim yimtaku." The meat tasted better. Why…
  9. 4:07We can't learn it out from the pasuk where a father is made for the neder…
  10. 4:40for the fact that "Isha hafeiram" for the ma'aseh. The ma'aseh is what the hafarah is…

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