THE SCAR FOUND HIS SHIDUCH

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yonah Carlebach’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

I'm going to start off saying over shidduch maaseh because lately I've been getting a lot of complaints from unfortunately there's a lot of older single girls and they don't know what to do. Not that I have an answer for them what to do, but just to say a maaseh maybe maybe it'll give them a little bit chizuk. Um I'm not advertising. The story goes like this. There was an older girl and she was looking for a shidduch. And some shadchan set her up with a boy. And she went out with the boy few times. And she went out with many boys before that and they were not metzliach by any means. But this one boy he she felt that she had all the right middos and all the all the things that a she wanted for in a husband. And so she was seriously considering him. However, he had one major chissaron. And that was that on his face he had a big nasty scar. And she had a hard time looking past that scar. A famous story. So whoever knows the story is I'd rather and if you don't know the story is then now you know my version of the story. But so the maaseh she wasn't ready to move ahead. So the boy stopped her and said to maaseh like what's the story? He wanted to know

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1. 0:01I'm going to start off saying over shidduch maaseh because lately I've been getting a lot…
2. 0:31older girl and she was looking for a shidduch. And some shadchan set her up with…
3. 1:02And that was that on his face he had a big nasty scar. And she had…
4. 1:32either we're going to continue or we're not going to continue, but don't leave it hanging…
5. 2:02those who know the story, famous story, that when she was a young girl, she was…
6. 2:33that the her little sister would get hurt. Then, all of a sudden, along came a…
7. 3:04And he said, "That this gash in my face is from those guys who beat me…
8. 3:34And so, what's the lesson of the story? The lesson of the story is that why…
9. 4:05shidduch whether it be boys or girls is gaining so when this inside that first of…
10. 4:35there's a mitzvah of you always have to think he's coming and you're ready for thousands…

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