CHAZAQ’s Torah Talks #5: Rabbi Benzion Shafier - Secrets of Shalom Bayit

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Welcome everyone to yet another amazing program. Tuesday's timely Torah talks. Today we have a very special guest, a very dear friend of Khazak for many many years. We have the founder of the smooth Rabbi Ben Tzion Shayfer shlit'a Rabbi Shayfer. Welcome. Salaam alaikum. How are you doing? Thank you. Thank you. I I'm I'm always honored to join Khazak. You guys are great. So remember Thank you. Our pleasure Rabbi Shayfer. You do so much for Klal Yisrael the Jewish people. And today we have a very interesting and exciting topic and that is the topic of shalom bayit of peace in the home. I always make a joke that in order to have shalom bayit you have to buy it. You have to go and spend money. I like your joke. Yeah, it's true. I like it, Rabbi. Yep. Yep. Yep. Especially with Pesach coming up soon. There is halacha. It is actually It says that though you have to go and buy your wife a gift. So just for all those guys watching just a reminder. Anyways Rabbi Shayfer, let's jump straight into it. There seems to be so much issues and problems with shalom bayit unfortunately. And is it

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