Why ''Spiritual You'' Teshuva is Sustainable: Safe from Burnout - Rabbi Efraim Stauber

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[Music] today I want to discuss what may be a question on the whole thing I've discussed this whole system with my herb a man with lots of people and there's one question that I've been hearing from a clump anyone involved in trying to help people do Chuba the same idea keeps coming up again and again and what they say is it doesn't last all these clairenhan nefesh ideas all these plans do this for five minutes a day do that around it you know it's great when you're feeling motivated but experience seems to show that people don't have what it takes to keep this going in the long term you could do it for a low maybe because recession is coming and then Yom Kippur is coming but then seconds comes and the party begins and that natural motivation to push isn't there so who's doing a husband a nephesh and you know in the middle of debates I mean who's doing the husband a fish it's just it's just it doesn't last so what I want to let you know is this is different to explain to you why this system is different and it will last and it's very simple the difference is what kind of motivation is it is it external or is it internal motivation if your motivation is a low if your motivation is your Mahad in on Rosh Hashanah and oh my gosh the books of life and death are open and Hashem is deciding if I'm gonna be healthy if I'm gonna get married if I'm gonna have children oh sure that's a motivation but it's an external motivation the external motivation leaves it's only a matter of time until we sink back into the have a husband

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1. 0:00[Music] today I want to discuss what may be a question on the whole thing I've…
2. 0:33clairenhan nefesh ideas all these plans do this for five minutes a day do that around…
3. 1:05know is this is different to explain to you why this system is different and it…
4. 1:36blah blah blah regular old thing we're not good at committing and sticking with things for…
5. 2:06little story I was once saying kiddush navona so you know how it is if you're…
6. 3:08to talk because you know and that's where you talk to God you know what I…
7. 3:41hands say hello you think I'm God but I refuse to be stepped on that way…
8. 4:14we need to do Chuba and so we could give you a smooth like this and…
9. 4:47thing and the obligation things like oh man I've been 2 weeks a bad person I…
10. 5:17we're just gonna regret and feel more pain you know what I'm not enjoying my life…

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