Rabbi Shmuel Silber - 7 Habits of Highly Spiritual People: (Part 1) Be Proactive

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Nesanel Gantz’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

is chiva is repentance is change and sometimes we don't necessarily know the ingredients necessary for change in other words i know what i have to change but i don't always know how to change it or i don't always know what change is supposed to look like oh for that matter what are the steps of change like for example the rambam and chuba brings down the various stages in chuva person has to stop sinning right the person has to go and admit their sin a person has to have remorse their sin a person has to have remorse for the past so on and so forth because understood you can't just tell people to to children is a complex process so i have to teach people says that i'm the stages the different parts of chuva so when it comes to personalistic change so many of us i know i shouldn't speak with i know i have to change but then i wonder to myself like why is it i know that i have to change i know that i have to change and improve for many years i even know what it is that i have to change have to change so why haven't i changed it why haven't i made the necessary tikkunim the necessary changes or adaptations in my life so sometimes it's because i'm just lazy and i just haven't done it but other times it's also because i know what i have to do but again i don't know necessarily how to do it and i found that this book of seven habits of highly effective people is an incredible framework for change and i think many of stephen covey's idea first of all stem from a religious

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1. 1:32is chiva is repentance is change and sometimes we don't necessarily know the ingredients necessary for…
2. 5:35he says i remember a mini paradigm shift i experienced on sunday on one sunday morning…
3. 10:13willingness to undergo a paradigm shift a willingness to say i've seen myself for focusing on…
4. 14:19school of thought of determinism you go with the response is always going to be the…
5. 19:24would have been different what do you mean just you just have a bad temper so…
6. 24:02and we have three children we're really concerned about what do you suggest love her i…
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8. 32:50this can you see the first truck kind of obvious direct control if i control it…
9. 36:57the boy he was 17 years old stripped of his clothing and his dignity by his…
10. 41:32do you mean they're not responsible so it's happening over here dear friends is something amazing…

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