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Why Family Stress Hits So Hard During the Holidays

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Rabbi Shais Taub

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  1. 0:00Okay, so the high holidays are coming up. I guess uh soon enough because a lot…
  2. 1:32do I do with all the people I'm going to have to see in shul?" Nobody's…
  3. 3:35your comfort level of with different things, what what you like, what you don't like, your…
  4. 5:37fundraising from people who they helped. And they realize it's because for most people, the time…
  5. 7:39person you are now and the person that they are used to you having been. Following…
  6. 9:43Uh we translate it often as repentance. It's not really repentance, but at any rate. How…
  7. 11:16exist, and the reminders of those patterns, the little visual cues and auditory cues and subconscious…
  8. 13:18Um and that's not it's not the proper response. The proper response is to protect ourselves…
  9. 15:20um test your boundaries. But that's okay. Because again, the point of the boundary was not…
  10. 17:21and feel relaxed. If you can create such an environment where everyone feels at home, truly…

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