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Bein Adam L'echaveiro 19 - Emes

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Rabbi Avi Wiesenfeld

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okay so let's finish off the of Ms one of the suas in very important very important because after all the way we speak often reflects the relationship we have as we mentioned the beginning the greater relationship you have with someone the more amount of Truth it requires because a real relationship is based on truth the relationship you have with the should be a relationship based on Ms the relationship you have with your parents with your roommates with the K with your re with your friends with your workmates re with your friends with your workmates with your boss should all be based on Ms the moment you start veing off the sh it starts making problems and it does generally cause a problem in the relationship so that is why this is doing here in the because after all you cannot have a without Ms so yesterday we went through some examples I want to discuss today a few more examples just to mention a couple of ideas brings in he brings nine categories of lying according to I'm not going to of lying according to I'm not going to go through them now but just to note down in the brings nine categories of different types of people of lying that's how many categories of people could be lying as well now I want to mention to you as well a very interesting thing the gar in shabas tells us that when a person comes to shamim after 120 years of living in this world and trying to become the best person that he can become the asks or the whatever is the Bas shal ask a bunch of questions to you one of the questions is were you

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  1. 0:01okay so let's finish off the of Ms one of the suas in very important very
  2. 1:32one of the questions is were you trustworthy were you honest in business now there are
  3. 3:03you're doing child right something to think about you guys are not married yet you're not
  4. 4:37of a very very sensitive issue in it comes to lying and saying the truth I'm
  5. 6:38don't know what your if I know you I know where you're holding I'll tell you
  6. 8:11situation anyway that's that's right that's okay um now you have to be very very careful
  7. 9:42two why there's no point of knowing when you see it's going further let's say date
  8. 11:43believe only to try and speaks he going to try his best and if you fall
  9. 13:15answers answer number one is beauty is in the eyes of the beholder which means he
  10. 14:49his wife he just got married to a few months ago and she's not yet such

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