Shidduch Series #3: But We're Just Friends (Ep. 117)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

hi this is dominolovsky welcome to the very last key show and whether you're listening until anytime or wherever you listen or watch your podcast we're happy to have you along for part three in our series on dating and marriage um i have to give a warning label at the beginning um we're going to be discussing things that are not appropriate for younger children i know i have a strong following in the elementary school crowd uh i urge uh you to uh turn this one off and watch another one an old one uh we're going to be dealing with issues that are perhaps a little more sensitive and uh i can just urge you please um this is uh this is not meant for uh for a younger age group uh but it's such an important issue that i feel it needs to be dealt with and if we've established one thing it's that i try to deal with issues that need to be dealt with do i run the risk of uh of um dealing with subjects that are sensitive yes i do but it's something that has to be done and uh this is a topic that is so essential especially when we're going to be talking about marriage we're going to talk about it more in the context of marriage later on but i want to talk more right now about the subject of dating we're talking about relationship and we're talking about a relationship between a man and woman that's we spoke about last week there's a difference between men and women and we're talking about the relationship between men and women the torah recognizes two levels of relationship between men and women and these are the only two relationships

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1. 0:00hi this is dominolovsky welcome to the very last key show and whether you're listening until…
2. 3:44she's also not ready for shidduchim and she's also not interested in getting married but um…
3. 7:43course and see what happens see what happens so uh that's what we're measuring talking about…
4. 11:54officer every nelson says talking is intimate there's uh a gumbaring service where it talks about…
5. 15:37importance of communication but debor is a relationship there's this two people there's a give and…
6. 20:08there were these uh two girls on a bus and they were discussing a maharao that…
7. 23:53with somebody it's fun for a girl to talk to a boy and it's fun for…
8. 27:39you sit back and let nature take its course [Laughter] after the conversation i washed my…
9. 32:06to give up your religious values so that i can feel better i'm going to talk…
10. 35:55it's well he starts to learn he comes from and there was an understanding that they…

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