Rabbi YY Jacobson - Why Are So Many Marriages Failing?

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

absorbing his teaching and writing in 1988 at the age of 15 the young jacobson began serving as a small team of oral scribes and newman tape recorders they were charged with memorizing and transcribing three to seven hours of talks by the tribe of blessed memory which were presented on shabbat and jewish holidays when recording devices were not used it's all yours on the floor thank you thank you coach menachem thank you my dear friends thank you to bosher thank you i see we thank you to bosher thank you i see we have almost 800 people can i not wow okay thank you so so much i'm thrilled to be here and it's really a very great privilege to be on this special sunday evening program and i just want to say that i'm also very honored because we have a principal in gemara kivan shahid the way i interpret it is once you hear a market once shiv energizer margaret you don't invite him back a second time that's an old principle in jewish life that's an old principle in jewish life so i am very honored to have been invited to be kaiser market a second time and celebrating a great milestone number 30 of these sessions i also want to give a shout out to the lakewood community because i know that most of the listeners and the viewers come from lakewood that's where rabbusha is that's where coach monaco is that's where this whole thing really took root and it's a testimony if one needs a testimony to some of the extraordinary qualities of the lakewood

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1. 1:02absorbing his teaching and writing in 1988 at the age of 15 the young jacobson began…
2. 6:40which means if in previous generations many of us could live with a lot of trauma…
3. 12:54is inherently unstable and the truth is that this is not just a psychological statement it's…
4. 19:02communication be immaturity c not going for help or d high expectations choose one of them…
5. 25:10divorce may be a necessary decision but it's a very serious decision make that decision it's…
6. 31:17what did they say the journey four million miles begins with one step you know we'll…
7. 36:56but completely locked up completely unaware of the pain that he may have from the age…
8. 43:03or has the permission of the authority to tell you whether to stay in this marriage…
9. 49:11but you know there is illness and there is illness so that's really what we have…
10. 57:32grief counselors always speak about the fact when we lose something there is denial there is…

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