Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan - Parenting Part 2

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] do [Music] good evening today we're continuing learning about parenting learning about parenting and again i'm going to show you the book with we are using spare the child by rabbi yakuza and we are on page 10 page 10 of the book and to quickly review i'm gonna go one paragraph back we first of all spoke about the the proper way to learn this book that this book is that this book is a textbook it's not an easy read it's not a novel but rather it guides you step by step explains to you proper techniques what to avoid and also this book will teach you mainly two things the difference between the which means education and control and what is education what is control what is education what is control and when to use education and when to use control both education and control are important control is more at the younger stage of their life and education is for older stage you cannot have one without the other and you need to understand both in order to use them properly now in the middle of page 10 he says this is the basis for our essential definition of toward what is proper education things that we do that cause our children to experience joy and pleasure in spiritual activities to desire spiritual activities and to learn how to achieve them and to learn how to achieve them so again these are the main goals of our education for jewish education that our children should enjoy spiritual pursuits they should want it and they should have tools knowledge how to achieve it that is what's going to give us the greatest um happiness as parents when we see that

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1. 0:00[Music] do [Music] good evening today we're continuing learning about parenting…
2. 4:11joy and pleasure in serving hashem is not education you might think it's education i'm going…
3. 8:47but it does not bring the child to desire to like to get pleasure from the…
4. 12:52something beautiful praise something important so he says if i don't come to this yeshiva i…
5. 17:35and no one has it and there are no policemen there are there is no security…
6. 21:48according to our definition education means to cause the child to experience spiritual pleasure and joy…
7. 26:30and uh he gave him the same answer as we gave in this book and uh…
8. 30:38the kitchen to ask her mother for something else to make the bracha on this was…
9. 35:17the this this uh father with his son who he wanted to force to pray tried…
10. 39:27once there were few a few children who were invited to the palace of a king…

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