The Best Advice You'll Ever Get on Relationships

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Aaron L Raskin’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

so tonight's lecture is to bring passion back into your marriage and so I put together 10 commandments for a happier relationship and to begin by saying that there are 613 ways for a Jew to connect to God every Mitzvah means connection and by doing a mitzvah we have another connection with God and when we do a mitzvah we make a broker Baruch Hashem I shake broker Baruch Hashem I shake additionally Mitzvah so we thank God who has sanctified us who made us holy with his mitzvahs but yet the only Mitzvah that we call holy is marriage for the word for marriages keep Duchenne which means holiness and therefore we realize that marriage is truly a very holy institution however it doesn't mean you have to be institutionalized therefore have to be institutionalized therefore hopefully these 10 commandments will give us a bit of a more of an insight and a directive of how to really enhance our marriage it's important to note that those who have come earlier tonight are not labeled as needing more passion in their marriage but rather we believe that if things are good they can get better the fatigue rabbi would say if good is good is better not better and therefore good is better not better and therefore it's really to enhance our marriage and to see how we can make things better so the first the first of the tenkan a Miss a marriage is compromise and my care against already this concept and that is what does compromise mean the first thing we do after a wedding in other words the hustle and color the bride and the groom when they come home after the wedding what is the first

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