How To Parent a Neurodivergent Child

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

what does that mean I don't sometimes you tell somebody Hey kid you got great ideals but that's pie in the sky in the real world here's how you got to get along with people here here are the lies that we tell each other in order to be accepted and a regular person says no problem I'll sign on to that social contract she's not going to sign on to that and not only will she not sign on to it but she will will she not sign on to it but she will feel the truth is under attack and in response to that attack on the truth she will become even more Vigilant and even more exaggerated in her in her zealousness for truth and Justice and all of these idealistic principles so hello hey there you're on the air oh wow okay so my question is I know Rabbi tab speaks question is I know Rabbi tab speaks often on neurodiversity I guess that's popular topic tonight and um in general and the algorithm yeah I don't know what to say about that anymore uh so far my algorithm keeps bringing this up again and again and it's coming up in um with parenting and with my kids um okay and in myself um but obviously this has to be tied to my my personal Journey as well and um um my personal Journey as well and um um maybe this should just become a support a support group help line um for this type of Journey but essentially um as someone who was uh discovered um ADHD as an adult and currently raising a kid with um with a newish uh diagnosis within the autism spectrum I'm very curious to know I know

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1. 0:00what does that mean I don't sometimes you tell somebody Hey kid you got great ideals…
2. 2:00spectrum I'm very curious to know I know Rabbi tab speaks often about um neurodiversity from…
3. 4:04curveball um and a new lens and I just would love to hear Rabbi tab's um…
4. 6:07and I'm regular I'm working so hard to regulate myself and be there for my kids…
5. 8:13himself and just tells it like it is is like the problem for everyone is that…
6. 10:49helpful okay okay so you mentioned earlier how do you transmit values to somebody who basically…
7. 12:56she learn values very simple by teaching her these values and not only will she learn…
8. 15:01the sky in the real world here's how you got to get along with people here…
9. 17:05remember it it's not it's not intellectual it's like it's viseral and when I'm triggered I…
10. 19:07rules there are going to be costs there are going to be opportunity costs you are…

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