Making Small Investments in your Marriage - Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch

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[Music] couples asked me all the time what's the best thing they could do for the relationship and I answer them they need to invest in the relationship you know people that are good at saving put a little money away each day let's say somebody puts away a dollar a day 30 days later thirty dollars two months later sixty dollars a year later 365 dollars but i can tell you something when you put that dollar way you don't necessarily see how you're benefiting you have to invest for an awfully long time before you see what's really good about your investment let me tell you a true story i was once on the subway in manhattan and i was what you call a strap hanger hanging on to the side of the trade trying to get through my trip and there were these people talking there and one guy turns to the other and said you know I just came back from a trip from Florida and I go there every year and his friend said to me said well how do you save enough money to go on this trip every year so let me tell you a story every night before I go to sleep I checked for coins that fell from my pockets into the couch and I brought home from work one of those big water cooler bottles and every night I gather all this change together and I put it in this jug and I do this for a few weeks a

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1. 0:01[Music] couples asked me all the time what's the best thing they could do for the…
2. 0:34dollars but i can tell you something when you put that dollar way you don't necessarily…
3. 1:05trip from Florida and I go there every year and his friend said to me said…
4. 2:06you a list of four simple things you can do and I want you to do…
5. 2:37suggestion do something different do something out of the ordinary for your spouse surprise them perhaps…
6. 3:38which you want to criticize them about forget about it throw the list away just find…
7. 4:09to make a simple investment in your marriage is make a list of your spouse's positive…
8. 4:39record of it and I want you to read that list every single day before you…
9. 5:43bit shy and aren't used to your gestures but after a while if you keep it…
10. 6:14going to reap tremendous benefits welcome to this new series and he's a brute called marriage…

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