How Do I Help Struggling Children? Rabbi Shimon Russell & Rabbi YY Jacobson

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

so comes the father with his beard and pears and he goes with him into the tattoo paror and he helps him get a tattoo and the guy sees him the guy doing the tattoos and he's halfway through and he stops turns to the boy he's doing the tattoo on and he suddenly sees his te and he says to the boy if I had a father like yours I probably would have stayed from with their children so now we have the privilege to sit once again and talk about uh ourselves and our work we're all work in progress all of us uh I don't think any one of us came down to this world perfect if we would have come down perfect we could have stayed up there and we're all trying to become better people better Jews better parents better teachers better Educators better principles better mentors better human beings better Hashem especially as teachers and as Educators and as parents so that's what we want to explore absolutely none of us have uh all the answers to all the questions all of us I think could learn more can grow more can uh challenge ourselves more so uh I'm going to begin my pleasure always my pleasure to sit with you thank you is just you know I only regret that we spend a couple of hours together doing this each question

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