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Harav Dovid Kaplan on Shalom Bayit and Marriage

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Rabbi Shlomo Yisraeli

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welcome just want to give a warm welcome to Rabbi Kaplan from AR Israel after having uh multiple uh plane rides and switching planes uh it's great to have you with us here and um really he does not need my introduction we had him before at KBT and has been always a great pleasure and honor to have him with us uh you know the topic of tonight is an interesting one it's hard to speak to a crowd that is half married and half dating um and we put it on him to to speak about marriage and shalomay dating and shom but I was thinking really in the Paras we have the only combination of such concept because mosenu parents who are not introduced in the par to us who they are and um they were married they had children and then they separated because of the difficulties of the time and then they dated back and married again got back with with each other so really it's a concept that relationships and knowing how a successful relationship is formed and forged you keep on dating your spouse as being married is always fresh and always keeping it um as something exciting is really the Y the constant the fundamental concept of marriage is to have this newness like the says in the second peric of and at the same time dating is always successful when you're looking forward to marriage is you know they they had this this research of who could draw a straight line on sand from point A to point B and the only person that did it they asked him how did he do it all the other people didn't do it they ended up

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