My Husband Watches P*rn. Is It My Fault?

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1. 0:00Okay, so I'm not exactly that excited about recording this, but there's a reason why this…
2. 2:04of times, um here's your opportunity to have that conversation without having to find my phone…
3. 4:08an argument, which is zero that legitimate. Zero legitimacy. Okay. But that that's that's the first…
4. 6:15of the marriage. And the fact, so my point is to bring out the fact that…
5. 8:17you've done more than your fair share. Okay, that's the the typical scenario. Now, the question…
6. 10:23knows people he can ask. He'll find whatever help he needs to find or not. But…
7. 12:28autonomy. By emotional autonomy, what I mean is, and this is to me the most important…
8. 14:33experience of it feels different. Completely different. If I say to you, you are never to…
9. 16:34don't do that. You don't put your life on hold. That you reclaim your dignity and…
10. 18:40um take back your self-respect, your dignity, um your sense of personhood, and that that very…

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