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קצרצרים החיזוק היומי!!! אין מחילה על שם רע - - סיפור מזעזע מאת הרב אלון עטיה שליט״א

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הרב אלון עטיה - הערוץ הרשמי

קצרצרים החיזוק היומי!!! אין מחילה על שם רע - - סיפור מזעזע מאת הרב אלון עטיה שליט״א

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Sometimes a person kills someone else with their tongue. It is hard to tell a person...I was at a lecture this week, and I spoke about what is written: one is not required to forgive for slander, for someone who spread a bad name, one is not required to forgive. The Mishnah Berurah says: But it is a trait of humility to forgive even in that case. Fine, a trait of humility. Someone asks me: "Am I halachically obligated to forgive?" I tell him: That is the law; if you say "I have a claim in Heaven," it is not the law, you are not obligated to forgive. Before someone else sees it, the verdict is: forgive. If you ask me about the law, you are not obligated to forgive. Someone nearby said: "What is wrong with you?"" Forgive!""What is wrong with you?""What are you keeping in your heart?""What are you holding a grudge for?" Then he looked, I saw his eyebrows knit together, in a second he was going to explode at him at 3,000 kph. It was like a terrorist attack, like an explosion. I said to him: "Wait, wait, hold on." I asked him a question: "All respect to you for being bold and

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  2. 0:31obligated to forgive. Before someone else sees it, the verdict is: forgive. If you ask me…
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  5. 2:38went to him without shame: "Did you call?" To the matchmaker. He says: "Yes .""Why?" He…
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  7. 3:40than him)—when his barrels of wine turned to vinegar, they told him: " Examine your deeds,…
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  10. 5:12your story, take whatever you want. Spreading a bad rumor is a terrible thing, and sometimes…

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