What Only Hashem Can Teach You | Dr. Zev Ballen

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shalom Arush’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] everybody has a part of themselves that they don't really like that much and they try to hide from everybody and they try to hide from the world and there's a part of you that probably has traits that you're proud of and you want everybody to know about well the truth Tru is that when about well the truth Tru is that when we're working with people using auna we're really looking at everything as having some kind of a value even those things that we label is not being good right so for example if somebody has addictive behavior what we learn is that God sent this for a reason and that we need to in a sense develop a sense of gratitude that this is the thing that's going to develop us that's going to get us we're nowhere else nothing else can this nowhere else nothing else can this problem in quotes is the problem that a person needs for his or her Tik tikos the Perfection of your personality and the Tik Tik the Perfection of your spirituality of your soul nothing is by chance so if a person has an addictive problem or other type of Behavioral problem it's very important to know that that's exact L what you need in order to that's exact L what you need in order to be able to go very very far in your life to grow and to achieve in all areas of your life in ways that you could never achieve without that problem in quotes So we look for the good and that takes away guilt because part of the problem what compounds the problems often that people have that come to see me is that you have the problem but on

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1. 0:00[Music] everybody has a part of themselves that they don't really like that much and they…
2. 4:40give our lives to Hashem but we set goals and we work to achieve those goals…
3. 9:21bad people really even in the person who behaves worse than anybody else there's a there's…
4. 14:05find a girl who's got a lot of problems herself and that's just making him feel…
5. 18:41healthy the way people think about money in our culture is not healthy money is a…
6. 23:22then you can move on I had somebody recently who told me he's not a young…
7. 27:59can pick somebody else now he's using me so people have to feel free to speak…
8. 32:38and I pretend you can make me feel as if I'm that person now and I…
9. 37:17point where we we're recognizing that things are not going to go our way and the…
10. 41:56man and he works every day at the techniques he he does the meditations and he…

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